HELLOOOOOOOOO time to get up!
1983 days ago
1984 days ago
1986 days ago
Children: Yes - not living with me
Smoking: Occaisional smoker
Hair Length: Shoulder Length
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Are you really tired of dating jerks? Then don't be one. You Christians, Catholics, Baptists and so on have heard hundreds of times, “You reap what you sow”. And you Atheists and Agnostics have heard the law of Physics; "For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction." The reason you pull in so many jerks is because of things you have done in the past. If you didn't do em, you couldn't become the effect of em. If you didn’t sow them, you would not be reaping them.
I learned form this. I got over it. Now I am ready to get on with life and cause those things which I want to have happen to me. I am willing to reap what I sow in life now... are you?
What I'm Looking For
There is a defense mechanism set up in the mind wherein everything which reminds one of a harmful situation in the past is flagged by the mind. A guy told you he was a good guy, I tell you I am a good guy. It reminds you of him and you stay away.
He was an ass. He did drugs (probably with you) he drank a lot (probably with you) he banged everything he could including your best friend. What does that have to do with me? NOTHING. If you aren't over him, I can arrange counseling. It works, I am over my ex who took me to the cleaners, my ex who stole my car and child and several others who slept with friends of mine. From the gate I trust you, I respect you and I give myself to you wholly. I do not expect the same, but at least try and pretend.