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Online: 2311 days ago   Updated: 2311 days ago   Joined: 2311 days ago
The Basics
  Age: 36   Gender: Female   Race: Caucasian   Location: Westland Michigan United States
The Details
Body Type:
  None but want some soon
  Smokes only when drinking
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Hair Length:
  Very Long, Long
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About Me

I love Jesus, my Family and Blunts, I am legally blind, a virgin who is waiting, I have a big heart and love to listen, I care genuinely about almost everyone I come in contact with, I'm a creative, fun, loving woman, I want to live and love and experience life,get married, have some kids, and take care of a man who is my best friend. I love Vampires I used to partake often in the art of creative writing role-play or doing anything artistic in many sorts of media, I cried the day I could not use my colored pencils. Now it's computes,facebook games, Movies and Music, and burning one with my friends, laughing until we piss ourselves. Laughter is the most therapeutic thing in the world and we could all laugh more. I think positive and believe you have to laugh at life's bullshit. I also have a darker, hopeless romantic side, I like writing I think it is very romantic, I'm graceful and distasteful. I can get shy, very shy. Live life in moderation, almost everything can be looked at as a positive in my book, things happen for a reason.

I'm honest, and will be real with you, I'll say things that need to be said but I try to present what I say in a loving manner, I never want anyone to feel bad.... unless your a real asshole, then screw you I hope you do feel like shit. lol jk

While I trust there are reasons God has kept me single I still have hope and faith that one day I will attain the mutual love of a soulmate. Give me the epic sweeping romance!

I have unconventional views. While I used to be very conservative and a seriously closed minded person I have in the past few years unveiled my eyes and more importantly my heart to realize the "Christian" community is lacking Love, the most important thing Jesus told us to have and to spread. While I may not agree with how the majority of the world's views, I still feel it is more important to obey Jesus when he said Love one another. I also have decided to use my own mind and heart when interpreting the
"word of God", while I used to just take the preachers word and his interpretation of things, I now question everything, and want to see it hear it and feel it out for myself.

While God is extremely important to me I do not attend a church nor do I think I ever will, I just can't find one I like. I miss fellowship but I commune with Jesus every chance I get. As far as a denomination I am somewhere between baptist and pentecostal I suppose but I have the strict confidence that no one has it right.

I am pro medical marijuana! and I would prefer stoners to drinkers anytime. I would reeaally love it if you want to smoke that you have your card. I do. I need to smoke regularly, but I do not smoke cigarettes and don't care to be around heavy smokers but can tolerate it if i must.

I am a Lovable, Funny, Pothead, Christian, Romantic, Optimist
What I’m doing with my life
I am disabled {legally blind} and it's tough but I keep a positive outlook and am thankful for what God gives me financially I am doing ok but I ain't gonna lie things are tight, I firmly believe everything happens for a reason and that God knows what he is doing, so I don't question it, he provides.

Currently, I am just enjoying my huge computer monitor without which I would be useless and bored, lol

I am the oracle of my friends, I can't drive so they come to me, either via car or email. I listen to them and care about almost everything they talk about (exept jersey shore) lmao or over the top drama bullshit. :I I love them all so much though.

I have three neices (really my cousin's kids but they call me aunt) that I raised for a few years whom I love so very much. They will still stay with us occasionally for the weekend. They are a big part of my heart, as well as my Grandparents that I live with
I’m really good at
Being creative, I love art, creating and viewing, though I am not cultured in Art like I would like to be. I haven't been as actively creative lately, I still attempt projects in various media on occasion. Singing.

I'm really good at flipping the negative's into positives.

Laughing, smiling, clowning.
Listening, loving, hoping, dreaming.
The first things people usually notice about me
You would think it would be that I have vision problems but unless I have my cane out most people don't even know until I say something. Physically, my smile maybe.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books;Ann Rice, John Sandford, Short horror stories, paranormal non fiction books, Shakespeare.

Movies;Phantom of the Opera LOTR, Interview with the Vampire, Queen of the Damned, Dracula 2000, Bram S. Dracula, Sin City, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Legend, Labyrinth, Spaceball's, Star Wars films, W.Shake. Romeo and Juliet, Boondock Saints, Running Scared, Princess Bride, Super Troopers, Half Baked, The Toy, Sleeping Beauty, Monster squad, Hostel I and II, Beauty and the Beast, Lion King, Jurassic Park, Titanic, Moulin Rouge, Robin Hood prince of thieves, Meet Joe Black, Sense and Sensibility, Aliens, Overboard, Old school, Black Swan, Gone with the Wind, Willow, Far and Away.

TV;Shameless, True Blood, Game of Thrones, The Tudors, Modern Family, Family Guy, ATHF, Ghost Adventures, V, Castle, House, United States of Tara, Camelot, I survived, Tosh.O, Cougar Town, Community, Ru Paul's Drag Race, American Dad, Children's Hospital, Workaholics.

Music; Nikki Minaj Trey songz Robin Thicke Emmy Rossum ClassicalCelloImogen HeapEvanescence One Republic, Katy Perry, Sarah Brightman, Nine Inch Nails, Tenacious D Bloodhound gangWithin Temptation System of a Down. I love it all, listening to a lot of country lately. and Lil Wayne. I mix it up!

Food;I cut out milk, i was a milkaholic to say the least and used to drink almost a gallon a day, i try to eat healthy but am sensitive to many foods, I love meat and potatoes! bad things....mexican fiesta China Star Palace,Fondue, Italian, Chicken Nuggets, Fries, Mozzarella sticks, basically anything that's bad for me. Lindt Lindor Truffles. Home made Philly marble cheesecake is my ultimate favorite!
The six things I could never do without
my family
my computer
phantom of the opera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I am doing with my life, or rather what I can do with my life, what do I want and how can I get it.

Random things. I like[movie quotes I daydream a lot. When I smoke I will start talking about time and space lol. Woah man...trippy lmao.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my cousin, I don't get out much because I cant drive but my social life is gradually picking up speed, I have been coming out of my shell again, I had a rough last year, or past couple years actually, but I am feeling healthier and more confident and started going out. I am at home a lot though, just watching a movie or hanging out. I will drink socially, I party with family for the most part, do some shots or have some coffee, sing loud and play some cards, that's my idea of a great time. I like to keep the party at home, don't have to worry about designated drivers or fights, raids, shootings, stabbings robbings rapings etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Wait! don't run! I am a virgin, I am waiting till marriage, I am a curvaceous honey who is getting healthy. i have dealt with depression in the past but am doing fantabulouse now, I live with my grandparents {don't really have a choice for now, may be looking soon}

What I'm Looking For

You are not a pervert who only wants to talk dirty. I am not down for that kind of creepy behavior ok, Don't get me wrong I can be ultra perverted in a funny way, that's different! If You love Jesus.
If you can make me laugh and as I said Medical Marijuana cardholder is a plus ;) I love smoking with people. ...and you don't mind my potty mouth I say shit a lot lol

Wanted but not Mandatory:
I like pretty boys and hate facial hair with a passion, don't try to kiss a blind girl with brillo on your face or you might get punched lol. I am looking for established men who are ready to settle and start a family in the next few years, not trying to rush but I'm only getting older. I'm looking for someone who tries to live a semi healthy lifestyle, I am trying to be more health conscious and be a more physically active person but you don't have to have the body of a greek god, I mean it would be nice but.... lol. I think it is most important for a man to be fresh, and by fresh I mean you are groomed and look and smell good, If I am going to spend time looking good so should you. My favorite body part on a man (to date at least) is a man's neck, a well defined neck and jaw will make me say mmmmm. I'm drama free, I hate drama, games and childish bullshit, so don't bring it around me, if you are charming and playful and like variety lets talk.

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