The Real Deal
2185 days ago
2187 days ago
2187 days ago
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Sassy, smart and sarcastic...those are probably the three words that sum me up best. I'm a complete social chameleon who's as comfortable in a little black dress and heels as I am in faded jeans and my cowboy boots. I can enjoy an evening playing pool in a dive bar as much as a night dining in a five-star restaurant.
My interests are wide-ranging: travel, music, sports, (especially football and hoops,) art, theater, and literature. I have sky dived...I really want to bungy jump, and I'm dying to learn to rock climb and repel. I love a fine dinner with an excellent bottle of wine...but will devour a juicy burger and fries without a second thought (toss in a Blue Moon and I'm in heaven!) I love to go to the movies, but sometimes staying in and cuddlng on the couch in front of the TV can be even more fun.
I can be fairly opinionated, and almost always welcome a lively debate...as long as my sparring partner comes to the table armed with a few facts as well as his or her passion. My sense of humor is very dry. If I'm not giving you a hard time, I probably don't like you much. Although once you get to know me, I am pretty laid back and easy going. I'm also passionate, and can be somewhat impulsive at times. What's on my mind and in my heart is usually on my lips...for better or for worse. I'm loyal, honest, and place a high value on integrity. Oh...and I can go from profound to utterly silly in approximately 2.5 seconds...sometimes with little or no warning.
What I'm Looking For
I'm on the quest to find the last great love of my life. I'm looking for a best friend, a lover, a confident, and a partner in crime all rolled into one. I want to find someone who makes me laugh and cry (although I prefer to shed tears of joy, rather than those inspired by anger or heartbreak.) I'm searching for the man who can put his arms around me and make me feel instantly safe and sound...who'll be the big spoon to my little spoon...who thinks I'm as gorgeous in a ball cap and pony tail and I am in a cocktail dress and stilettos. Someone who appreciates that my Buddha collection is about more than just decor, and who doesn't find it odd that there's also a crucifix hanging over my front door. (You can take the girl out of the Church...but you can't take the Church out of the girl.)
I'm NOT looking for a one-night stand, or a friend with benefits. I'm not uptight, prudish or fridid by any stretch of the imagination. I just prefer to make love as opposed to shagging. For me, a big part of the difference between good sex and incredible, seismic sex is the level of connection and emotion involved. I'm also not looking for unnecessary drama. I'll deal with all the crises and dilemmas life hands me with grace and composure, but I won't deal with manufactured BS. I have little or no tolerance for people who create trouble where none exists. You be cool to me...I'll be cool to you...and all will be right with the world.