I'm the one you think doesn't exsist!
2207 days ago
2208 days ago
2208 days ago
Children: Yes - living with me
Sexual Orientation: Straight
First off I'm a Mommy of two beautiful boys. If you can't handle that, or THINK you can't, please save us BOTH the trouble and move on. NOONE will come before my babies. :)
If you're still reading this then you've already earned brownie points with me. A man with patience, understanding and who likes kids is automatically an awesome person. I work in childcare and have for the past 10 years. I'm independent. I pay my own bills, own my own car, live alone with my sons and am NOT looking for someone to A)Sponge off of me or B)Take care of me.
I've led quite an interesting life up to this point. I'm divorced (it was mutual and there is ZERO drama there!) and I'm not looking to jump head first into anything. My biggest mistake has been to rush things with someone new. I'm looking to meet people that I can get to know at a steady pace. No pressure. No expectations.
As for psychotic people, I've met my share. Just because we've been dating a month doesn't mean you own me, it doesn't mean you're someone I HAVE to answer to, and it certaintly isn't the right time to be discussing marriage or saying "I love you"! Establishing a stable friendship is ideal and if there's more, then I won't turn it away. But as I said, there's no need to rush. We both have the rest of our lives to enjoy eachother.
I'm very compassionate, loyal, empathetic, nurturing, understanding, intuitive and passionate. Yes, there's a difference between COMpassionate and Passionate. If you don't know the difference, you should probably move on.
I have a GREAT sense of humor. There are very few people I can't get along with and those people are what I call "Stupid people". I have a hard time being sympathetic towards people who don't make an effort to better themselves or make thier life better. I've struggled much of my life and I strive EVERY day to be a good person. If you don't like me, don't look at me, SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!, wisdom is proven through action and lies never get you anywhere.
I love life and am very capable of giving out a WORLD of love to the right person. I don't drink but I do smoke. (Less than half a pack a day.) I refuse to do drugs and I try to eat right. I'm big on education. Especially for my children. I feel that if you aren't educated, you won't get very far in this life.
If you're STILL reading, you just earned MAJOR bonus points. ;) And as long as you aren't psychotic, can take no for an answer, well mannered, have a great sense of humor, LIKE KIDS, and know how to treat a woman... then write me a message. I'm not on here too much so if I respond with my cell number, don't freak out. I'm not desparate by ANY means! It just means you sparked my interest and I would like to talk to you further. If you don't text or call, your loss. :P
What I'm Looking For
Someone HONEST and faithful. Someone who can accept me for ME. Also you must be able to accept my kids. They are and always will be a part of the package. I'd like someone with a great sense of humor and someone with drive. To make their lives better each day. Someone who can learn from their mistakes and leave the past in the PAST.