shellybean
Frist impressions matter!!!!
The Basics
Age:
32
Gender:
Female
Race:
Caucasian
Location:
Maryland
United States
The Details
Children: None but want some soonHair Length: Shoulder Length
About Me
I attend HCC, I am going to become a RN in 4 years. I am a huge fan of country music. My fav. football player is Brett Farve #4. Ideal Date
My ideal first date would be a dinner date or walk around the park with good conversation.
Music
I like rap and rnb. If you wanna know specific artist u have to find that out by talkin to me.
What I'm Looking For
What are the qualities of a good friend? True friendships can start instantly but they take
time to build. Here are a few qualities to look for when making friends as a teen -- and
beyond.
1. A good friend is honest.
A good friend may not share every detail of every second of their life, but they do try to be
clear about their intentions. This means that they try to present an accurate picture of who
they are and of different situations. When something doesn't seem right, they let you know.
2. A good friend is fun, unique and interesting.
OK, this is a given, and probably the reason you became friends in the first place. But
there's a lot to be said for chemistry and shared interests.
As for fun, it depends how you define it: Some friends are fun because they're the life of the
party, others are fun because they notice every strange little detail about a situation. Some
people are fun simply because they see life like no one else does.
3. A good friend is attentive and adaptable.
A good friend is at least a fairly good listener and notices how little, day-to-day things
affect you. They can't read your mind, but chances are they can usually tell when you're
happy, sad, excited, shocked or upset. If they're aware that they're doing something that
annoys you, they try to change their ways or at least talk to you about it.
4. A good friend is supportive of you and your goals.
Sure, your friend may think you're cool, but are they on the same page as you? Do they know
what you want most out of life? A really good friend will know what makes you tick and help
you become the person you want to be. They won't try to change who you are or drag you into
situations that make you uncomfortable or put you at risk of losing something that matters to
you.
5. A good friend is a friend you can trust.
A true friend won't try to steal your girlfriend or boyfriend, your job or your personality.
They won't gossip about you constantly or try to damage your reputation. They will let you
know when they're concerned and do their best to stick up for you when you're in trouble.
6. A good friend makes it clear that they care about you.
Different people may have different ways of letting you know that they care about you. One
person may give you a big hug whereas another person might gently tease you. A big clue that
someone cares is that they talk to you fairly often and, in general, know what's going on in
your life and act interested about it.
7. A good friend sticks with you in good times and bad.
Loyalty is a quality almost everyone lists when asked what they look for in a friend. A loyal
friend will stick with you when your new play is a flop, when you bomb the SATs or when your
parents get divorced. If you move or switch schools, they'll do their best to stay in touch
with you.
8. A good friend accepts you for who you are, even when you're being a butthead.
In friendship, being accepting goes hand in hand with being loyal. A true friend rolls with
the punches as you grow and change and know how to deal with your quirks and faults.
They are also patient with you when you make mistakes -- even big ones -- and learn how to
forgive you when you hurt them. In other words, they treat you as you'd like to be treated,
even when you aren't at your best.
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