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sharpone7
I want a mate not a date.
Online: 2088 days ago   Updated: 2088 days ago   Joined: 2088 days ago
 
The Basics
  Age: 57   Gender: Male   Race: Caucasian   Location: Oceanside California United States
The Details
Body Type:
  Athletic
Appearance:
  Clean Cut
Children:
  Yes - not living with me
Smoking:
  Non-smoker
Eye Colour:
  Green
Hair Length:
  Very Short
Sexual Orientation:
  Straight
Hair Colour:
  Blonde
About Me

If you read this please don't confuse realism with pessimism.

At this stage in our lives I'm unsure if were all still considered a "date". I know I probably won't find the love of my life using a on line dating service. I am seeking my lover and best friend. I rejoined this site again a few months back and still not much success. I've heard my competition isn't that great so I remain optimistic. I've learned that many woman in middle age are now hardened by the issues they've lived through and also what occurred while enduring on line dating. I've also learned not many woman have any extra time in their lives. That makes it difficult if not impossible to have a relationship. A relationship to me isn't sex 2 Saturday nights a month while her kids are at Dad's.
So if I were describe what I'm looking for here it would be this.
A woman who is bright, secure and kind. Conversant and not argumentative.
A woman who is somewhat attractive, thinner perhaps or height/weight proportionate.
A woman who lives local. Local to me is in the 760 or 858 area codes.
A woman who has time to spare. I have time to spare, the time to talk and would rather be with my girl
than out with the guys or sleeping or being alone.
A little about me.
Irish/Sicilian decent.
I grew up in rural, down state NY and was USMC x 8 years.
I like to remain non-dramatic and don't like confusion in my life. I want to remain
as stress free as possible but life can be stressful at times. You know ? I'm sure.
I'm very polite, open doors, hold hands, kiss and and cuddle very well. I'm very generous and not cheap.
Love to cook and entertain. Highly domesticated.
I'm am attune with nature and love animals. Dogs, cats, birds, fish, reptiles and all. I grew up in the woods and in natural surroundings.
I am self described as a conservative liberal. Unselfish and non-materialistic.
I am very well disciplined, dependable and solid. My career make me very creative, meticulous and precise.
I'm very clean without being a "freak". Personal hygiene is a must.
Household cleanliness is essential as is the car etc. I don't like unclean people.
I have an adorable small child part time who is lovable and wonderfully behaved.
I've heard I'm handsome if that's a deal maker or not and that I'm very funny.
I like to stay in shape, eat healthier and make sound decisions.
I'm very bright without formal education and I enjoy being outdoors and am easily entertained.
To me, it's fair to say that people in general have a lot more in common than they admit.
We are after all the same species and genus. We all like a lot of the same things. We live in the same place.
I tend to like the finer things, good times, good food, fine spirits and nice locations.
You won't find me in front of the TV for hours at a time, especially in the day light.
I don't want to spend the next four months watching weekend football on the couch.
I'm not religious but have a personal relationship with God. I don't do well with Born Agains. I
don't mind devoted religious folks but can't fathom the hypocrisy.
The fall and most of the winter are my favorite times of year.


If you are out of work it's understandable. If you won't/don't work it is not. An entrepreneur isn't a person who collects alimony and child support from your former spouse. Family court isn't a profession unless you're the judge, an attorney, court clerk or bailiff. A caregiver isn't a person who still lives with Mommy and collects State funds claiming she needs that degree of help when in actuality she's out in the casinos drinking and your on line hitting on guys. Bar tending is not a career. Neither is massage therapy except in isolated instances.


***THE MESSAGE TO MEN @ LOG OUT BY THE STAFF OF POF***

"The Secret Reason
Women Won't Message You Online...
... And How To Make Her Message You

Hey man,

Ever wonder how to get the hottest woman in your area to send you a message? That would speed up the dating process quite a bit, wouldn't it?

Well, a good friend of mine asked me to write him a little article about online dating.. so... I wrote it, and decided to share it with you. By the end of this article, you'll know exactly how to write the perfect profile to get one, specific woman to send you a message.

This will work a whole lot better if you imagine one, specific girl in your mind, and read through the steps with her in mind. Go ahead and open a new tab and log back in, if you have to. Got her? Good. Let's get started:

"How Can You Guarantee
A Woman Will Send You
A Message?

The truth is: You can't guarantee it. But you can give yourself a damn good chance. Here, picture this:

You're searching for a woman in your area. And all of the sudden, you find a headline you like. The picture is really cool – she looks cute. So, you click on her. And when you read her profile, you see thing after thing you two have in common. It seems like you're a perfect match for her.

Naturally, you'll send her a message. And that's the kind of feeling we'll give your "perfect woman" when she reads your profile. Here's how:

"Three Easy Tweaks
You Need To Make
To Your Online Profile...

Open up her profile on your computer. Go ahead, do it right now. Now, take a look at three key sections:

1) The "For" Section: You gotta match it, or put up "Long Term" on yours. Ideally, you're looking for the same thing she is. This way, she'll find you in a search match. However, if you're trying to hook a couple of fish... you may need to put long term. This is the best status to have for many reasons... We simply don't have the space to cover it, now.

2) The "Boxes Of Death": You see how above her pictures and below her pictures there are two boxes? The first one starts with, "City" and the second one starts with, "I am seeking a." Got them? Perfect. Well, you want to match her on these boxes, as well. Obviously, you don't want to put that you're seeking a man. You want to match her answers for the following:

Smoker
Religion
Relationship and Chemistry (hint: you sho

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What I'm Looking For

If you read this please don't confuse realism with pessimism.

At this stage in our lives I'm unsure if were all still considered a "date". I know I probably won't find the love of my life using a on line dating service. I am seeking my lover and best friend. I rejoined this site again a few months back and still not much success. I've heard my competition isn't that great so I remain optimistic. I've learned that many woman in middle age are now hardened by the issues they've lived through and also what occurred while enduring on line dating. I've also learned not many woman have any extra time in their lives. That makes it difficult if not impossible to have a relationship. A relationship to me isn't sex 2 Saturday nights a month while her kids are at Dad's.
So if I were describe what I'm looking for here it would be this.
A woman who is bright, secure and kind. Conversant and not argumentative.
A woman who is somewhat attractive, thinner perhaps or height/weight proportionate.
A woman who lives local. Local to me is in the 760 or 858 area codes.
A woman who has time to spare. I have time to spare, the time to talk and would rather be with my girl
than out with the guys or sleeping or being alone.
A little about me.
Irish/Sicilian decent.
I grew up in rural, down state NY and was USMC x 8 years.
I like to remain non-dramatic and don't like confusion in my life. I want to remain
as stress free as possible but life can be stressful at times. You know ? I'm sure.
I'm very polite, open doors, hold hands, kiss and and cuddle very well. I'm very generous and not cheap.
Love to cook and entertain. Highly domesticated.
I'm am attune with nature and love animals. Dogs, cats, birds, fish, reptiles and all. I grew up in the woods and in natural surroundings.
I am self described as a conservative liberal. Unselfish and non-materialistic.
I am very well disciplined, dependable and solid. My career make me very creative, meticulous and precise.
I'm very clean without being a "freak". Personal hygiene is a must.
Household cleanliness is essential as is the car etc. I don't like unclean people.
I have an adorable small child part time who is lovable and wonderfully behaved.
I've heard I'm handsome if that's a deal maker or not and that I'm very funny.
I like to stay in shape, eat healthier and make sound decisions.
I'm very bright without formal education and I enjoy being outdoors and am easily entertained.
To me, it's fair to say that people in general have a lot more in common than they admit.
We are after all the same species and genus. We all like a lot of the same things. We live in the same place.
I tend to like the finer things, good times, good food, fine spirits and nice locations.
You won't find me in front of the TV for hours at a time, especially in the day light.
I don't want to spend the next four months watching weekend football on the couch.
I'm not religious but have a personal relationship with God. I don't do well with Born Agains. I
don't mind devoted religious folks but can't fathom the hypocrisy.
The fall and most of the winter are my favorite times of year.


If you are out of work it's understandable. If you won't/don't work it is not. An entrepreneur isn't a person who collects alimony and child support from your former spouse. Family court isn't a profession unless you're the judge, an attorney, court clerk or bailiff. A caregiver isn't a person who still lives with Mommy and collects State funds claiming she needs that degree of help when in actuality she's out in the casinos drinking and your on line hitting on guys. Bar tending is not a career. Neither is massage therapy except in isolated instances.


***THE MESSAGE TO MEN @ LOG OUT BY THE STAFF OF POF***

"The Secret Reason
Women Won't Message You Online...
... And How To Make Her Message You

Hey man,

Ever wonder how to get the hottest woman in your area to send you a message? That would speed up the dating process quite a bit, wouldn't it?

Well, a good friend of mine asked me to write him a little article about online dating.. so... I wrote it, and decided to share it with you. By the end of this article, you'll know exactly how to write the perfect profile to get one, specific woman to send you a message.

This will work a whole lot better if you imagine one, specific girl in your mind, and read through the steps with her in mind. Go ahead and open a new tab and log back in, if you have to. Got her? Good. Let's get started:

"How Can You Guarantee
A Woman Will Send You
A Message?

The truth is: You can't guarantee it. But you can give yourself a damn good chance. Here, picture this:

You're searching for a woman in your area. And all of the sudden, you find a headline you like. The picture is really cool – she looks cute. So, you click on her. And when you read her profile, you see thing after thing you two have in common. It seems like you're a perfect match for her.

Naturally, you'll send her a message. And that's the kind of feeling we'll give your "perfect woman" when she reads your profile. Here's how:

"Three Easy Tweaks
You Need To Make
To Your Online Profile...

Open up her profile on your computer. Go ahead, do it right now. Now, take a look at three key sections:

1) The "For" Section: You gotta match it, or put up "Long Term" on yours. Ideally, you're looking for the same thing she is. This way, she'll find you in a search match. However, if you're trying to hook a couple of fish... you may need to put long term. This is the best status to have for many reasons... We simply don't have the space to cover it, now.

2) The "Boxes Of Death": You see how above her pictures and below her pictures there are two boxes? The first one starts with, "City" and the second one starts with, "I am seeking a." Got them? Perfect. Well, you want to match her on these boxes, as well. Obviously, you don't want to put that you're seeking a man. You want to match her answers for the following:

Smoker
Religion
Relationship and Chemistry (hint: you sho

 
 

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