A Rose By Any Other Name Would Smell Just As Sweet
2108 days ago
2108 days ago
2108 days ago
Sexual Orientation: Straight
The name's Jason! I love to write. I write a wide variety of stuff, but I mostly write poetry and philosophy. I also like to read, but don't get around to it as much as I'd like to. Some of my favorite book series are Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Holes, and Pendragon.
My friends and family mean a lot to me. I try to be as loyal as possible to them. I'm not perfect and I don't pretend to be; I think part of the beauty of human life is our imperfections, for they give rise to our diversities. Speaking of beauty, I believe beauty lies in mere existence. Unfortunately people are conditioned to think they way you look is the definition of beauty, but it's so much more than that.
I have loads of hobbies, and I consider myself decent at a lot of things, but good at nothing. (haha) But I do things because they're fun, not to because I have to be the best at it. I enjoy camping, fishing, hunting, traveling, playing music, going to plays, watching movies, hiking, walking, riding ATV's, going to theme parks, zoo's, reading, playing video games, spending time with friends, *learning, exploring new places, and learning about people.
What I'm Looking For
I'm not looking for "just another relationship", or "a pretty face to call my own". I'm not here for sex, or to mess around. I'm here to meet new people, make new friends, and possibly find a friendship that might grow into something more. Just because we chat on here does not mean I am in love, or I romantically like you. If we chat of here we're friends. Love takes a lot more time and energy than a friendship does. I guess what I'm trying to say is, if we chat here there is a chance we might get more involved in the future after we really get to know each other. Don't expect to meet me on Monday and marry me on Wednesday. It takes time, and I don't like to rush things.
I never understood those dating sites that had you pick out all the physical features of your ideal significant other..."Check here for blue eyes", "Check here for blonde hair", "Check here for thin/slender bodies"...Haha I say that's not looking for love. That's attempting to order the perfect visually attractive person. I am not looking for a relationship with a girl other people think is beautiful; The world is full of "other people" and I could care less what they think beauty is. I want a relationship with a girl I think is beautiful. And I will see her beauty myself, and don't need some banner at the top of my internet browser to temp me to want a super model girlfriend. I mean don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with looking like a super model (XD), but what I'm saying is looks are NOT everything.
I'm looking for a real relationship; The girl I want to be with for the rest of my life. I want someone I can love with all my heart. Someone I can enjoy spending all my time with. Someone who likes to cuddle, and just spend time together. Someone who isn't afraid to communicate, and compromise. After all, life is essentially a series of compromises that maintain a balance we rarely see. I'm looking for a life long partner. No relationship is perfect; There will always be set backs, arguments are part of life. I'm looking for someone who is willing to work together as a team to overcome the odds, and negative sides of a relationship to stay together and enjoy the positive sides. I don't want things "my way", nor do I want them "your way". I want them "our way". Loyalty is another very important factor to me. No cheating. Ever. Under ANY circumstance. I mean I don't care about my soul mate having friends that are guys. Doesn't bother me a bit, but there is a significant difference in guy friend and boy friend. As long as we're clear on that everything's fine. I hold myself to the exact same standards; I have friends who are girls, but I would never get involved with them if I'm already with someone.
Honesty is BIG. As I've said no one is perfect, we all make mistakes, and no relationship is easy. We all do things we regret. Even in a relationship MISTAKES HAPPEN. For me it's less about the mistake and more about what happens next. I can almost always forgive someone if they come and just tell me how they feel, or what they've done. It's when they try to lie, deceive, and cover stuff up that they loose my trust.