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  Age: 51   Gender: Male   Race: Mixed   Location: Brooklyn New York United States
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About Me

About my life and what I'm looking for. I'm trust worthy, loyal and looking for someone who I can easily communicate with and appreciates those traits. A simple girl with a dash of complexity to keep things interesting, who likes to be out going and spontaneous but doesn't mind just cuddling on the couch and watching a movie. It's kind of tough to "advertise" yourself and still reflect who you are but guess that's how this whole thing works, so here it goes.

I'm confident, not arrogant, have a good head on my shoulders, a lot of fun, and very "real". Real in the sense that people usually find me very easy to talk to, non-judgmental, straight forward yet considerate. They say that I wear who I am on my sleeve. I’m kind of perplexed about that because I don't know if that's a good thing or bad. Not to mention……what dress was I wearing and which sleeve were they looking at (hahaha) but I guess it's me. I think it's because I've experienced many things in life and been blessed with unique perspective. I have nothing to lose by being myself; in fact it makes life much easier. Not being yourself just leads to misconceptions and building a relationship (friendly or intimate or both) on a false foundation. It only leads to finding out, after too much time invested, what one or both of you knew wasn't going to work out in the beginning anyway, not to mention hurting someone’s feelings. Call me crazy, call me forward, call me sensitive or a tough Guy, whatever you want but I call it real. Life's too short to spend it sad, miserable, or alone. It's great to have fun, be happy, and enjoy life, but it's even better when you have that special someone to share all that with and be your best friend.

I'm compassionate, grounded and have many good friends. I'm looking for someone who I can bring around my friends but understands that occasionally some time alone with them isn't a bad thing. I'd like a woman who I can have by my side at a business dinner and can carry a conversation with my colleagues and clients, but is also down to earth and can let his guard down to hang with my friends. I enjoy playing sports and still play competitively, so it’d be nice if the woman wouldn't mind coming to some games and chat with my teammates or their partners, but not be afraid to be his own person. I want to share my life with someone who knows how to have fun, is considerate, compassionate, easy going, and who'll be my best friend. I love openness and honesty; I think it paves the path to great communication. I'd love to be able to show her new things and have his show me a few. I'm always up for just about anything and want a man that I can spoil and will spoil me with love, laughs and new perspectives.

Well, I think I shared enough at this point to at least start some conversation. Hope I sparked a little interest and I’m looking forward to getting to know you and building at least a good friendship. Hope to chat soon, thanks for visiting and good luck

What I'm Looking For

if you are not the best why seek for the best? sure we all deserve good things in our life and what ever we get is what we worked for..it doesn't come in by luck or chance but by the grace and mercy of God...I'm not a perfect so I won't say I need a perfect woman..But one who loves God and knows what it takes to be in a serious relationship


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