Want to take a chance? Promise it will be worth it
1703 days ago
1703 days ago
1703 days ago
Children: Yes - not living with me
Smoking: Occaisional smoker
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Lets see I'm a single father of a 3 yr old boy, my best friend, I can pretty much find fun in just about anything I do. Love my job, love to cook, and being around friends, like to relax or go out with friends, but staying in is just as good for me. I can sometimes get lost in the TV at the end of a long day, ok honestly all I watch is SCRUBS, I mean is there a better show? Oh also I can't forget I love listening to the Free Beer and Hot Wings show on WQLZ (friggin' hilarious) I love spending time with my son, his favorite thing to do is be in the car, so sometimes a little ride with him before bed is the best thing at the end of a rough day. I think we are all seeking that special person who is right for us. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully. It isn't until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems. The ones that make you who you truly are, that you are ready to find a life long mate. Someone you gaze upon lovingly and think, "this is a problem I want to have." It is only the lucky few who get a second chance and make it work. If you want to know more, just ask. I'm pretty much an open book!
"Solitude becomes and interesting companion. It can be both enemy and friend. Comforter and tormentor."
You can never let go of the kid inside of you
You see, it's the kid inside of us that keeps us all from going crazy. -Zach Braff in Scrubs "My Big Brother"
"I remember once imagining what my life would be like, what I'd be like. I pictured having all these qualities, strong positive qualities that people could pick up on from across the room. But as time passed, few ever became any qualities that I actually had. And all the possibilities I faced and the sorts of people I could be, all of them got reduced every year to fewer and fewer. Until finally they got reduced to one, to who I am. And that's who I am..." ~Nicolas Cage in the Weatherman
What I'm Looking For
If I am lucky enough to meet someone I enjoy spending time with and things feel right well then as time passes I don't want to be kind of dating someone. I don't want to be hanging out with someone. I don't want to spend a lot of my emotional energy keeping my feelings inside so I "appear" to be not that involved. I want to be involved. I want to be sleeping next to someone I know I'll see again because we have both demonstrated to each other that we are both trustworthy and honorable -- and into each other. I don't want this to be mistaken with moving to fast but to clarify I am looking for a real relationship, not just sex or a one night stand so if you're not looking for a relationship or don't want to be in one in the near future please save both of us the time... I am a very caring and fun loving guy, I love to joke around and be sarcastic, but also know when to be serious. I have a huge heart and want to find someone that whats to share what I have to put into a lasting relationship. Oh and I like to text as much as the next guy, however I would like to get to know someone in person, and not just text for the first month or two. Some of the girls on this site are all about giving guys "their advice" in what they and other girls like and don't like. They say they want this or they want that in a man, and honestly some of you would find what you want in just about any guy, if you are willing to look past a picture, take a chance on someone, or take a chance at love. Sometimes it is all about taking chances. And I know I know, love is some what about being attracted to how someone looks. But honestly isn't it more about how someone treats you, cares about you, and is there for you whenever you need them with without being asked. Guys are sick of hearing girls ask "where are all the nice guys at?". Ladies, We are in the "friend zone" where you left us.
AND P.S. LADIES IF YOU ARE READING THIS BECAUSE I PAID YOU A COMPLIMENT, PLEASE DON'T TAKE OFFENSE TO IT. IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH TELLING A LADY THEY ARE GORGEOUS, OR HAVE A NICE SMILE NOW? WHEN I SEE A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN WITH A GORGEOUS SMILE, I LIKE TO LET HER KNOW. WHO KNOWS MAYBE SHE DOESN'T HEAR IT TO OFTEN OR SHE'S HAVING A BAD DAY, MAYBE IT MAY MAKE HER FEEL A LITTLE BIT BETTER... IF YOU FEEL LIKE SENDING ME A MESSAGE EVEN IF ITS JUST TO SAY THANKS THEN SO BE IT. OR IF YOU WANNA CHAT AND GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER EVEN BETTER. ASK A FEW QUESTIONS WITH THAT THANKS!
It amazes me how often I talk with the women on here only to find out how much they get lied to, and have their hearts and feelings toyed with. While there are plenty of guys on here that would give the world to even have an opportunity to even talk with those women. I mean seriously? Hey ***holes stop ruining it for the rest of us.
OH AND LADIES IF YOU ARE JUST ON HERE LOOKING FOR SOME D!#% (YES WOMEN DO IT TOO) OR YOU AND YOUR MAN ARE "ON THE OUTS" AND YOU ARE JUST TRYING TO FILL HIS ABSENCE UNTIL "HE COMES BACK TO YOU" DON'T WASTE MY TIME, I AM LOOKING FOR SOMETHING REAL, NOT HIGH SCHOOL GAMES