hello world!!! i'm back, and better than ever..
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Body Type: A few extra pounds, Athletic
Appearance: Clean Cut, Casual
Children: Yes - not living with me
Smoking: Occaisional smoker, Smokes only when drinking
Sexual Orientation: Straight
well, my life has been filled with its ups and downs like everyone else's. but in 2011 my wife of 18 years walked in to our bedroom one night and told me she wanted a divorce,she wasn't happy.and wanted to move on after a few months of trying to work things out i gave in and went through the process of the divorce.after all my son had just graduated high school and she wasn't in love with me any more so i signed the papers and turned everything over to her and left. i took an apartment in a near by town and started over,on my own my son had joined the Navy and his life was just beginning.i looked for work and found little or none and one day as i got out of bed to
get ready for an interview i fell flat on my face.i was numb my legs and arms barely able to move.i thought i had a stroke. i called a family member to come take me to the hospital and they found i had collapsed disks in my neck.i needed surgery so the next day they operated on me. when i woke up i couldn't move.the doctors had me listed as Quadriplegic.no movement in the arms and legs nerve damage from the disks that disintegrated. the first few days were horrific.not knowing what was going to happen to me.they had done all they could. now it was up to God and me.
i prayed to God to either take me or help me get out of that chair.one week into therapy i Stood up from that chair" it took all of my strength and will but, i did it!
4 weeks later i was walking with the help of a walker.as the months went by i got stronger.and a year later i am now walking on my own. i use a cane occasionally
when i walk long distances but i'm 98% capable. my x wife and my family were supportive of me but i believe god was there for me the whole time. he gave me a
"New Life" and i intend to do something i have never done before. "Live" and once i'm cleared to work again and get back on my financial feet so to speak i intend to do just that. i love to have fun at whatever i do. i enjoy most of life pleasures.
i love sports ,dancing ,biking ,hiking, fishing ,hunting,camping,etc i have a passion for cooking and love to prepare food for friends and family.but especially my special
Lady. candle lit dinners aren't uncommon. its true that life is short. and i intend to live what time i have left on earth living it to it's fullest. hopefully with someone who feels the same way i do about life and love.
What I'm Looking For
i am looking for a woman "who isn't afraid to be loved" a woman who knows the true meanings of love,friendship, fidelity and honesty. a woman who knows how to be beautiful without
making me stand in the shadow of her beauty.
a woman who is ready to be loved "from the inside out" a woman who will let me love her for who she is.I too have my share of heart breaks and disappointment's.and i can assure you of these facts. "I don't lie. i don't steal and i don't cheat". I don't believe they solve problems, they create them. so lets talk, and work on our problems" together".all of that being said.
in short i am looking for my best friend,and my true love. someone to spend the good times and the not so good times together. to work together as a team and enjoy the time we have to its fullest. lets start out as friends.and learn to love one another as we grow in our relationship.my mind my heart and my arms are open.
all i have to do now, is find you. John Henry.