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The Basics
  Age: 41   Gender: Male   Race: Caucasian   Location: Michigan United States
The Details
  None but want some soon
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About Me

Hello my name is Justin, but everyone calls me jay am a single Jewish male age 31, i work full time and i work mid-shift (from 11am to 7:30 pm) but have weekends and some evening free. I would describe myself as goal-oriented and taking the right steps towards a stable career. I recently made the decision to go back to school and work towards becoming an eye dr. I enjoy making people laugh. I am intelligent and can carry on meaningful conversations. I care about other people's feelings.

I do believe it is important to treat a woman right. When I'm with someone special I like being spontaneous, adventurous, romantic, surprising them with little gestures, sensual, playful, and basically having that type of fun you see two people who just met in the movies having!

As a person I like to think of myself as confident but not crude. I'm a very humble man. I understand that there's a time to give and be loving and understanding. I also believe in standing up for what I believe and not being walked on. I'm always there for my friends and loved ones. I don't run from adversity. I care what people think of me because I believe in being the best man I can be. I want people who come across me to think "hey what a cool guy". It's not about attention for me. It's about the importance of ones own honor and respect for those around him

My hobbies are wide in range, i do tend to be more of a homebody, but with that being said am looking to go out and do things with the right person , so i like to find someone who enjoys both aspects when dating. my taste in music is wide range anywhere from classical, to classic rock, rock, alt, jazz and blues and even county

I am not perfect...No one is, with that being said am looking for someone with goals and plans to fix their own life problems (we all have them , its not what they are its more how you deal with them as far as am concerned) . I've had to overcome some things in life and in doing so it's made me a much stronger man.

Having some similar interests helps--some things I enjoy are fine dining, walking at the beach at night, going dancing, watching movies including action adventure, comedies, and drama, traveling, going on day trips to local attractions, having romantic nights at home, cuddling, and basically having a blast together.

What I'm Looking For

I am one of the rear people who knows what it is am looking for.....(not so much the type of person but rather what it is they (you) can bring into my life and what i can bring into there life (let me clarify I do not mean this in a coc*y or arrogant way, it's more of how we help each other thur the journey we call life). what i mean by that is the different traits or personality one might have and how we interact with one another , with that being said i am open to getting to know different people and maybe even find out something new.

BUT.... with that being said if you are the type of person who is not comfortable talking on the phone with in the 1st (3-5 e-mails Max....preferable the sooner the better)then we most likely will not be a good match,

I am looking to be introduced/meet online but rather quickly take it from an introduction phase to a getting to know one another in real life phase and have our interaction be more meaningful and on personal level then just e-mailing or im-ing one another..... meaning have real one on one and concrete conversation over the phone, meeting in person can happen as time permits and when we are both comfortable but that should not get in the way of getting to know someone off line. One who not willing to talk on the phone, leads me to believe that they are just looking for a pen pal and that not what am here for sorry

On another note, that may sound harsh , it's not intended to, my bark is far worse then my bite ....i just know what i want and what i don't want out of this, so now the question becomes , do you know what you want out of this? if so what are you waiting for , get a hold of me.

don't let the bark be the reason you don;t want to get to know me, there are a lot of postive things i can and do bring to the table.

Hope to hear from you soon


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