looking for good black man to be my best friend
1630 days ago
1630 days ago
1903 days ago
Body Type: A few extra pounds, Large, Voluptuous
Appearance: Casual, Average
Children: Yes - living with me
Smoking: Occaisional smoker, Smokes only when drinking
Hair Length: Shoulder Length
Sexual Orientation: Straight
here i am in the middle of my life starting all over!! lol.
new life calls for trying new things and new ways of meeting people, so here i am! i really like music, and cooking, hanging out. i love to swim and like to fish (even though it has been years since i went fishing). i like so many different things i dont know where to start. i can say that im not really fond of going to the movies, i can think of better things to do. i dont watch tv as much as most people, but i do hang out at my computer quite a bit. im really kind of an oddball with a huge personality and sarcastic sense of humor. im bluntly honest and often say to much. im not a person that needs to be around people who are sensitive and easily offended. i am a interested person that is curious and craves knowledge. i ask alot of questions and to be honest.. sometimes i can be annoying (just saying) lol
What I'm Looking For
i am looking for a person to first be awesome friends with and see where it goes. im not looking for a casual sex relationship. i want a man who is good at being a man. honest (to a fault) and accepting of flaws. a man who loves his family and does not cheat and lie constantly. must be good with kids and accepting of family.
quirky is so cool, i like awkward, nerdy is awesome.. but plain ol ordinary hard working dude is still good for me. i sure think work boots are sexy. i also think words are sexy. i would love to find a man who is clever and intelligent who can match wits with me. you must be able to stimulate my mind before my body will respond to you. also, i am accustomed to dating black men and my kids are black. i do like black men (especially ones who like fat girls!)
sorry to say it like that, but after having some pretty awful messages sent to me from racist men i just want to get it out of the way. im tired of trying to sugar coat stuff. it is what it is.... also, im fat.. if you are not cool with that, dont bother sending me a message. i am a really fun and cool person, if you want to know something about me... just ask