Man Wanted: Young, Active Guys Please Apply!!!
1732 days ago
1732 days ago
1732 days ago
Children: Yes - living with me
Sexual Orientation: Straight
I know this is a bit long, but it is worth reading. Please note if you don’t have the time to read this, don’t take the time to contact me because I won’t have the time to respond back.
***A Little About Me***
Please don’t let my age fool you. I don’t look or act my age. I enjoy life to the fullest and have to say I am growing tired of guys my age acting old. I have an outgoing, bubbly personality that people enjoy being around. I find myself smiling all the time no matter where I might find myself because I never know who God might put in my path that day. They might be having a miserable day, but my smile might brighten their day if for just that small moment of time.
I have a tender heart. I know that others need to learn to take care of themselves, but most of the time I find myself there to help when they need me. If they are in trouble, I offer compassion and go out of my way to be helpful. If they need someone who will listen, I try to be trustworthy and sympathetic. But when they ask for my advice, I tend to offer it in a straightforward, direct manner without beating around the bush. Not everyone likes this, but I give it with love and understanding.
I enjoy my own company as much as I enjoy the company of others. I am a great conversationalist and thrive in the wonderful kinds of connections I have with my family and friends, but I also equally enjoy my own company whether I am sitting in my favorite chair with a book and soft classical music playing or meandering in the woods.
I truly enjoy sports whether it is watching or participating. I am a huge football fan and cannot wait for Sundays/Thursdays in the fall. No, I am not the stereotypical girl who says they love football to seem cool but says stupid things during the game while cheering. I actually understand the game and enjoy talking football -- as long as the game isn't on. Other sports I enjoy include baseball, softball, tennis, basketball, and high school wrestling.
I love long talks at night; walks under the stars; staring at the campfire; watching the snow fall; camp with the kids; romantic picnics by a lake; ice cream cones while swinging at the park; washing our cars while trying to see who can get other the wettest; working in the garden together without getting dirt put down our shirts while the other one isn't looking; going to church on Sunday morning and coming home to a big Sunday dinner; having family cookouts; going on road trips on the spur of the moment; wrestling with all the kids on the living room floor; and most of all crawling into bed every night knowing there is a man who loves me more than anything that is going to hold me until we fall asleep, and I can fall asleep knowing I am safe forever and will never again need to know how it feels to be alone.
What I'm Looking For
***What I am Looking for in a Man***
I am a very active person, and I am looking for someone who can keep up with me. I am a very hardworking, and I need to learn how to relax more. I am hoping that when I find Mr. Right he will be able to help me with this. I love to snuggle and be held, but I am also a romantic. To me there is nothing sweeter than to walk in the rain and kiss under a tree or snuggle in a blanket on the porch swing as a storm moves through.
***What I am Looking for in a Relationship***
I want to be in a relationship where I am treated with respect and am allowed to be myself. I am a strong, independent woman who can and has always taken care of herself and her children but am tired of never being able to depend on anyone. I want to be with someone I can trust and know will be there by my side when I need him. I want someone who will always have my back as I will always have his. Even if we don't agree with one another, we will not show it to others. We will stand united and then discuss things in private.
I want someone who will laugh with me at silly little things; someone will see the small joys that are all around us. I need someone who will treat my kids with respect. I am not looking for him to be their father but love them and not mistreat them. I don't expect anyone to be able to love them as their own. That is not possible, but I want them to love them because they are part of me and accept them into his life.