2219 days ago
2219 days ago
2219 days ago
Children: Yes - living with me
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Looking for a sweet guy.
I am a single mother of two. I am shy at first when I meet people but loosen up after a while. I havent dated in over 15 years. So Im going to be a little rusty at this whole thing. I like being a stay at home mother but I am working now that we are on our own again. I have been divorced for 3 years and then was in a relationship after that. I dont have a great job but its a job.
I have baggage as most people do(who usually wont admit it)...but I do have some. I like to go to the movies or out to dinner. Im a casual person for the most part but I clean up pretty well. I spend my free time playing on the computer or working in the garden(used too). I dont watch too much tv but I do like to snuggle on the couch and watch a movie with the right person. I love horror flicks(but not the real bloody ones). I love to laugh and smile.
I am a very honest person with everyone. I dont lie and I dont like to be lied too. If I catch someone in a lie its pretty fair to say that I wont really trust them after that. I can forgive but not forget. Forgetting is the hard part and usually most people dont forget when they have been wronged. I try not to hurt anyone in my life because I know what it feels like to be hurt.
My kids are the most important thing to me but a man who has my heart is right there with them. I like to put my kids first but sometimes its about putting yourself first to find happiness. If momma aint happy, aint no one happy is a favorite saying of mine.....and I believe it. Moms need to be happy too.
I know what I am attracted too and believe that physical attraction is the beginning of a relationship. if I dont find the man attractive then I know its not going to work. So please dont be offended if I say that you arent my type.
What I'm Looking For
Im not sure what Im looking for. I know after all this time what Im NOT looking for. I know Im looking for my perfect match. Not the perfect guy, MY perfect guy. He cant be hurtful in anyway. He cant call you names or cheat on you. He cant do something wrong and then blame his actions on you. I have a lot of what he cant be's.
What he can be, sweet and caring. MUST have a decent job. Dont get me wrong, Im not a money grubber and have always just gotten by and that was ok, but I want more now. I want to have my wants sometimes, not just my needs. Im not about to start dating a guy who is in his 30s or 40s and has a bad job like I do, so if you are making 10 bucks an hour, move on, Im not your girl. Yes, that could be hypocritical, but I have an excuse. Ive been a mother for 13 years and didnt have a good back up plan because I was going to be one of those wives that never got a divorce lollll So yes, I want someone with a good direction in their life. Someone who already knows what they want to be when they grow up and are already doing that. But above all that,he must be SWEET AND CARING!!
He must be fun, not all the time fun, but fun to be with, makes me laugh, makes me giggle.