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Dear destiny: Let's have a chat!
Online: 1685 days ago   Updated: 1685 days ago   Joined: 1685 days ago
 
The Basics
  Age: 39   Gender: Female   Race: Mixed   Location: Massachusetts United States
The Details
Body Type:
  Athletic
Appearance:
  Stylish
Children:
  Yes - living with me
Smoking:
  Non-smoker
Eye Colour:
  Brown
Hair Length:
  Shoulder Length
Sexual Orientation:
  Straight
Hair Colour:
  Brown
About Me

ENJOY THE STORY WHICH IS NOT ABOUT ME JUST SOMETHING I WROTE AND WANTED TO SHARE WITH YA'LL.

Don’t give up… but don’t get caught.

In this journey we find our other half, but we can’t forget that half the journey is finding ourselves.

So if you cant find mr. Right – most likely you’re no Ms. Right either.
Its not the right time.

Why…?
Lets rewind.

It didn’t work out.
You’re single.
Long list of exes. Wait crazy exes. Losers. Not on your level type exes?

But seriously, this is it.
You’re having a toast to the douche-bags and Cinderella is not gonna settle for anything less than Prince Charming!

But you can’t find prince Charming if you don’t know what he looks like… true?

SO FIRST, lets draw up a sketch… of attributes ofcourse
(because you’re not the superficial type), that your ideal candidate will posses.
Honest, Loving, Caring, Driven, Stable, Well Endowed, Sane is always a good one… right?

Great!
So off to the Ball you go to begin the search for your Prince.

But the lights are dimmed and the music is too loud, plus you’ve been drinking and well, you know how that goes.
STILL you tell yourself you’ve found him.
You’re head-over-heels in LOVE (halfway through planning the wedding and picking out kid names but right before that fairytale ending with the happily ever after) when abruptly- caught up in the hype, the clock strikes 12.
AND just like that -”POOF”- the butterflies fly away and you’re left alone, in rags, holding a pumpkin.

How. Did. This. Happen…?

Well my dear, you better believe Prince Charming had his own list too… and while a pretty face, some nice tits, good head, and round ass were on it and caught his attention… he has the attention span of well, a lighting bolt… and the results were just as deadly.

The glits, the glamour, the castle and horse carriage…
Wait my bad, enough of the metaphors… ahem
The penthouse, the bentley, and the lavish get-aways are long gone.
You feel washed up, heartbroken and all you have to show for it are a pair of last seasons Louboutins (yes Cinderella you can keep the complete pair) and a whole ‘lotta frequent flier miles.

BUT WHY?!

“Always there when you called, always on time. Gave you my…”
LOL!

No but literally, as in at the gate on time when he called- boarding the next flight out to go see him.
I’m talking post glam squad photo-shoot fresh ready, had it down to a science.
Cooked in 6 inch heels, agreed to threesomes, read all those internet blow-job tutorials, mastered deep throating and yes, SWALLOWED!!

SO what went wrong… another ****?!?
(well, most likely)

And then you switch to full-blown psychotic mode,
But wait Cinderella!
-before turning into inspector gadget, searching his Facebook, Twitter, TMZ, MediaTakeOut and ofcourse GOOGLE (because in this case even if you can’t find it on GOOGLE it STILL exists)

STOP dry your tears – YOU WEREN’T READY.

But be happy.
Be happy because it’s not what you wanted, it’s an illusion.
A lie you’ve been telling yourself for so long you began to accept it.

This doesn’t end in happily ever after, it ends in death threats and Divorce.

Soon you will notice Prince charming croaking on a lilly pad.
Actually, you had front row tickets to the complete toad transformation. It happened right before your eyes but “Love is Blind” so ofcourse, you ignored it…

So pull yourself together and don’t go pointing any fingers either because primarily YOU are at fault…

WE ARE ALL AT FAULT.

Half of the time we are so consumed with finding the right qualities in that other person that we forget to FIRST instill them in ourselves.

“Girl you ain’t the only one thats trying to be (HIS) only one…”

And once you understand this, it clicks.
When you know better you do better.

They said “To attract you must be attractive.”
And yeah you have that down pat, but that wasn’t the reference.

You lack substance.
I’m not insulting you, i’m describing you.
So why put in work for them, when what you REALLY need to do is start working on yourself.

What they should of said is “Become so you can attract.”
Would’ve saved a lot of heartache, alway’s trying to confuse you.

But just in case i lost you… one more time:

The key is not to devote our existence to being the right person for somebody else, but to being the right person for ourselves.

FOR YOU!
(lol yes, it finally is about YOU – it was about you all along. When they said “its not always about you”… they lied!)

BE SELFISH.
But consider it an investment of time.

It’s about me because in the long run, when i find you – i’ll be the right person for you.
And since you attract what you are, then you in return will be the right person for me.
And we cant skip through all the heartache and hoping one day they will change Bullshit.

Now is the time to focus on YOURSELF.
Set goals for YOURSELF and attain them.
Figure out what motivates YOU,
what’s important to YOU,
what it is that makes YOU happy and more importantly, find happiness within yourself.
And once you’ve done that you can share your happiness with others.

Find out WHO it is you want to be, and BECOME that person.

BE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO ATTRACT.

What I'm Looking For

I know what and who I want, doesn't matter how perfect you are if you're not perfect for me I won't waste my time in getting to know you.
 
 

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