blueguild
Romantic, Affectionate, Creative, and Spontaneous!
The Basics
Age:
56
Gender:
Male
Race:
Caucasian
Location:
New Hampshire
United States
The Details
Body Type: Athletic, SlimAppearance: Stylish, Clean Cut
About Me
I like to run, cycle, kayak, camp, ski, golf, play tennis, go bowling, etc, but I'm not "on the go" all the time. I like to be fit and occasionally work-out, but I am not obsessed, and fortunate I don't have to be. I also like to travel, dance, cook, see live comedy or bands, and I like to go to the beach occasionally, including late night romantic walks or a drive along the coast with the top down! I can socialize in any setting, and with any group of people. I know when to be serious, and I know how and when to be fun and silly too. I like all the New England sports teams, but love watching the Patriots. But if you are good at couch cuddling and kissing I'll watch whatever you want! Salsa dancing is something I've always wanted to try, and figured it would be sexy to do with a partner. I can be happy doing just about anything with the right companion by my side, and hopefully we can introduce each other to things we both enjoy, as well as create some new interests together. I don't mind either of us having some personal time, but I do love spending time with my , otherwise, what's the point of being in a relationship? I don't hang out in clubs/bars unless I am with my partner. I don't smoke, and I rarely drink, but will have a glass of wine with you.
I understand we all have priorities (children, job, friends etc), but a relationship is also a major priority, and I expect my partner to place me and our relationship as a high priority. Respect and trust are very important, but too many people overlook attraction and intimacy. Chemistry is critical to success in a relationship. I like holding doors, walking on the outside (do you know what that means?), and doing sweet little "surprise" things that put a smile on your face, and show that I care, however, I do expect my partner to reciprocate.
We've all been hurt, and most people have a little baggage, and that's fine, but we still HAVE to be open and vulnerable toward our partner. If a person has too many protective/defensive walls up and is afraid to "get hurt again", then the relationship has very little chance of success. Also...it's important for people to realize that "if" we have resentment from a past relationship that we do not project it onto a new partner.
What I'm Looking For
I am a unique man looking for a woman that has many quality traits; intelligent, loving, caring, romantic, sensual, outgoing, and loves to laugh etc. As for me, I have a great sense of humor, am romantic, affectionate, and can be spontaneous. I believe good communication is critical for success in a relationship. I'm looking for a partner that doesn't talk a good game, but is actually willing to enter the game and work hard to win. Hoping and wishing to be in a wonderful relationship won't make it happen. It takes effort, consideration, patience, compromise and even a little sacrifice now and then...but if people truly offer those things, then they will get back 10 fold in happiness. I will do much more than my fair share in a relationship, I'm just looking for someone that knows how to reciprocate.
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