avid28
Nice Guy Looking For Long Term Relationship
The Basics
Age:
41
Gender:
Male
Race:
Other
Location:
Bellerose
New York
United States
The Details
Body Type: A few extra pounds, AverageAppearance: Casual, Average
About Me
Hello, I'm going to write this the only way I know how, truthfully and directly from my heart.
I am a nice, honest and caring guy. I don't like to play games or hard to get when it comes to dating and relationships. I like to communicate because I don't like that certain things go unsaid that could otherwise be said and possibly fix things and make them better. I'm an open guy I don't have any problems talking about any topics.
I don't smoke and never have much in the same I don't do drugs and never have. I'm also not a fan of alcohol, I can drink but I choose not to most of the time. I do not like beer. As far as what I do like, a lot. I'll try almost any food once within reason of course but I'm not very picky when it comes to food. I really like Italian food so I'd say that's probably my favorite if I had to pick. I'm not a vegetarian and while I have no problem if you are I do enjoy meat from time to time and as long as that doesn't bother you that's fine. I also like to cook and help with the cooking. I enjoy doing things together and I think cooking as a couple is really nice.
I'm not much for sports or cars or most of the other stuff that guys seem to be obsessed with. I like to write, read, watch movies, some TV but not much. I love music and I try to listen to some everyday. I like to walk and I enjoy the rain, if its not windy and or lighting outside I might even suggest a walk. If this is not your thing or perhaps just a little too heavy out, sitting by an open window or under an awning just watching the rain can be nice too.
I'm not much of a risk taker when it involves things I hold dear meaning my life and yours. I'm open to new things and experimentation as long as it doesn't involve the possibility of a hospital visit. This goes beyond just trying new things. In general I am a protector, I would never want to see harm come to you. So I'll always be thinking of us and you and what I and we can do to keep you and I as safe as possible.
I'm looking for a partner, someone to share with. Not control or be controlled, not to argue with or a sex-buddy. I'm looking for someone who would like to spend time with me as I would with them and experience both old and new things with. I want to be there for someone as they are there for me. I do not need to be the "financial provider" to feel like a man. I much prefer to be there for you in deeper more connecting ways. Given time I would like to be the one you go to first emotionally. A relationship should be about two people who beyond all else are willing to talk with each other first before others.
I know what I'd like to have in life and where I'd like to be. I'm not going to throw it all away for a weekend in Vegas or a chance at a million dollars if it means gambling my/our life savings. I'm just looking for someone to love me for who I am and someone I can love for who they are. A relationship can be a beautiful wondrous experience and I'd like to have that part of my life.
I am happy and content being single; I'd like to be happy and content with someone.
What I'm Looking For
I'm looking for someone who has the same ideals and Morales as me, see above. Someone who is honest and caring and is capable of accepting someone who is open and has no problem talking about everything.
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