KJ0357
Would you like to share a smile?
The Basics
Age:
42
Gender:
Male
Race:
Caucasian
Location:
Georgia
United States
The Details
Body Type: Average, A few extra poundsChildren: None but want some soon
About Me
I'm like the seven dwarfs rolled into one:
1. Sneezy, because every time that I get into direct sunlight I sneeze.
2. Sleepy, because I love to sleep on my days off.
3. Dopey, because when I'm with good friends I act as such.
4. Doc, because when I'm at work I'm focused as well as in day to day routines, I'm loyal in my relationships, self motivated, goal oriented, trustworthy and I love to have a good conversation with others.
5. Happy, because I know that my life is on track and moving in the right direction. I'm affable, a good listener, have a good outlook on life and have a good sense of self worth.
6. Bashful, because when it comes to women I'm a bit on the shy side. Which is why I'm still single more than likely.
7. Grumpy, because I'm not really a morning person, I have to drive in Atlanta traffic and I'm having no luck finding my Snow White.
I know it's kind of corny but if you can't have fun then what's the point. My personality is made up of many parts listed as well as some that you will have to get to know me in order to learn.
What I'm Looking For
What is my intent for being on this site?
Yesterday – 6:53pm
Part of my mission in life is to find a best friend, a lover and a mother. A extraordinary young woman that can find the good in all of my faults. Who will push me to be a better person. That will stand behind me 100 and 10% no matter what obstacles we encounter through out our lives together. Enjoys the trivial things in life and does it with a smile. Has self respect and is tactful as well as tasteful. Has a humble nature. Stands for her morals and ethics wholeheartedly.
"A smile costs nothing but gives much. It enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give. It takes but a moment, but the memory of it sometimes lasts forever. None is so rich or mighty that he cannot get along without it and none is so poor that he cannot be made rich by it. Yet a smile cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen, for it is something that is of no value to anyone until it is given away. Some people are too tired to give you a smile. Give them one of yours, as none needs a smile so much as he who has no more to give. "
Likes and wants children. Likes to ware dresses from time to time. It's okay to be a tomboy from time to time. Has good family values. Has a affable personality. Is a giving person. Has goals and aspirations. Is open minded and has a thirst for knowledge. Likes to have good conversations about topics ranging from philosophy to bad movies. Enjoys physical affection. That does not mind being woken up with a kiss. Knows that there will be bad days, but also understands that they are only temporary. Wants to share her life.
“The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes.”
Charles R. Swindoll
Is willing to burn a casserole and laugh about it, or laugh at me when I do. Gives me a shoulder to lean on and a ear to listen to problems that may arise. Then gives me the love and support to move past it. Believes in her abilities to achieve her goals and is willing to share them with me. Because two are better than one. Is open to suggestions and is not condescending. Education is progressive. What I mean by that is I really do not mind if you only have a G.E.D or a masters. As long as your willing to move forward with your life.
Stand behind your decisions and follow through with your promises. Respect me for who I am. Also feel free to critique me when I'm wrong out of love. Be there for me both mentally and physically. Give me complements and uplift me. In essence be the type of person that you want me to be. I would not ask you anything that I would not ask of myself first. As I am here in order to find my soul mate, my best friend, my lover and the mother of my children.
“What is the quality of your intent?
Certain people have a way of saying things that shake us at the core. Even when the words do not seem harsh or offensive, the impact is shattering. What we could be experiencing is the intent behind the words. When we intend to do good, we do. When we intend to do harm, it happens. What each of us must come to realize is that our intent always comes through. We cannot sugarcoat the feelings in our heart of hearts. The emotion is the energy that motivates. We cannot ignore what we really want to create. We should be honest and do it the way we feel it. What we owe to ourselves and everyone around is to examine the reasons of our true intent.
My intent will be evident in the results.” Thurgood Marshall
I am one of many, yet I am one of a kind. As I could not sum who I am up in a life time because life is a ever changing state. What was true of me last year is not true of me now. I move forward with life. Learning and adapting to life every day. Yes there are parts of me that stay the same throughout the years past, although they are small matters in the sum of the whole. Every day brings with it new opportunities. It is nice to achieve your goals but remember that, that is not all there is to life. What really matters is the journey that lead you there, the people that helped you along the way and those that you inspired to live a better tomorrow.
" To laugh often and much; To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; To appreciate beauty, to find the best in others; To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded. "
Ralph Waldo Emerson
In close I would like to think those of you who took the time to read this. Although we may not be right for one another I wish you all the best. May you all find true happiness.
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