You have a gift for one liners...
2115 days ago
2115 days ago
2115 days ago
Appearance: Casual, Trendy
Children: Yes - living with me
Smoking: Occaisional smoker
Sexual Orientation: Straight
It's summertime, my favorite time of the year, sun, pools, bikinis, and adult beverages. I am a single parent, she's almost grown so she does not require much from me other than love, discipline and money. Which leaves me open to socialize in ways I never could while she was growing up. I travel for work at least once a month, sometimes to places that leave me unable to contact the people back home. I have my own house, car and am free of credit card debt. I do not have Daddy issues (i.e. I have no intentions of dating a man old enough to be my Father, I will not respond to you), I am not looking for someone to take care of me, my ex husband and I are friends, I don't hate men nor do I blame all men for what one man may have done to me at some point in my life. Life happens, people are in our lives when they are in it for a reason, and when it's over you mourn and move on and hopefully salvage a friendship, I like being friends with my exes, even if I only dated them a short time; there was a reason I chose them to be in my life at some point and I see no reason to not have them in it in the future as well. Bitterness is not attractive, therefore I try very hard not to be bitter about anything and expect the same from any man I may date i.e. Don't expect me to do whatever it was your ex wife/girlfriend did or blame me for it.
If I like you, I'm going to want to talk/text with you. This will be because I want to get to know you and be a part of your life, even if I do not see you everyday. A little contact goes a long way. At the end of the day I am looking for that one person I think is a prize and who looks at me and thinks the same.
I'm a big lover of music. I listen to all different kinds of music currently listening to James Morrison, Josh Radin, VersaEmerge, A Day to Remember, Dave Matthews Band, Jason Mraz, Adele, Sara Barialles and the list goes on... Music that can speak to your soul and make you feel and remember moments vividly... that's the only way to go
I just want it noted that when men say they don't want drama or crazy, they are not being realistic. Men and women alike all have their crazy. My crazy is entertaining. My drama usually starts and ends with my teen. Dating makes 99% of the people crazy at some point. Dating is not easy, especially when you do not know or understand your date's motivations. People say one thing then do another. People misrepresent themselves sometimes because of fear and sometimes because they are just ***holes. Sometimes... 2nd chances are needed in order to find out the truth.
What I'm Looking For
Here is what I am attracted to... at least 5'10" I am a tall girl who likes to wear dresses and heels and I have no desire to look down at my date all night. I like men of average build, not too thin and not too big (this includes you big body builder types) Obviously, I want to be attracted you. If you have not taken care of your teeth, I don't care how pretty the rest of the package is, I will not be attracted. The smile is always the first thing I notice about someone. A beautiful smile will go a long way to hooking me in. I love a man you can laugh and not take life so seriously. I like to go out with my friends and have a few drinks, if you are not a drinker at all, we will probably not get along long term.