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The Basics
Age:
37
Gender:
Male
Race:
Caucasian
Location:
Albuquerque
New Mexico
United States
The Details
Sexual Orientation: Straight
About Me
Alright, firstly we might as well get to my name. It's Justin.
About myself now... well, I definitely think outside the box for sure.
I'm introverted, I prefer quiet places with one close friend than ever being stuck in a mall full of people. I get really uncomfortable around crowds. If it was a crowd of people I can relate to, or friends, I could do that. But just loud people. No way. I'd rather just live the quiet life.
I'm very logical, I think about every detail about why someone would do this and that. That's probably why I'm atheist. I was force-fed religion back when I was a kid and bought into it due to the 'fear tactics' but soon grew out of it. And no one could ever give me a logical answer except science. And I know how people think. People like to think there's a God, an afterlife after death to make them feel better. People created God, and then give it credit for everything instead of relying on themselves. I just couldn't be a part of that any longer. Give me science any day.
Other things I like, writing; I'm pretty big on that, video editing; another hobby I got into a few years ago. I'd much rather spend a day at home with someone I like than go out and talk to a ton I don't know anything about. I prefer the quieter side of life. That saying about the Best Things being free; it's true. An early morning stroll, just enjoying the fresh air; it's one of the best things I can do.
What I'm Looking For
One of the reasons I'm on here is just to find a new friend, that's the first and foremost thing. If it evolves into something more, hey, great, I'm up for that too. I don't see any problem at all with meeting people online. I think of it like this, it allows you meet people far off that you could never have without it. It's stupid to just limit your choices on anyone to a local area, because then it's all up for chance. I'm just not like that, I really want to seek out people I really like to talk to, good friends.
In terms of how a relationship would go with me. I would put forth anything. Every time they wanted to talk, I would, if they had a problem, I would comfort and offer anything I could just because. This sounds cheesy, but I like being in love. I like hanging out with a girl who can practically be your best friend. And just being able to be together and have fun is probably the best thing about it. If you just get a partner for the only sake of "relationship" it's not going to last, because that's all she is to you, just "the ball and chain". If you're also really good friends with one another, it makes it that much more special.
While I'm not against sex, I don't push for it. That's not the best thing about anything. I'd rather her just say "I love you" than anything else. And that would make me happier than any kind of sex.
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